With almost three decades in the banking industry, Pamela Shodipo has built her career around people, performance and the ability to navigate difficult situations. Her background in Psychology has also shaped the way she understands leadership, relationships and the individuality of the people she works with.
A wife, mother, mentor and senior banking executive, Pamela has learnt that a fulfilling life requires attention beyond professional achievement.
Ahead of the Wellness & Style Live Experience, she speaks with Exquisite Magazine about leadership, personal wellbeing, faith, family and learning to take care of the woman behind the professional title.
For those meeting you for the first time through Exquisite Magazine, who is Pamela Shodipo?
I am a Psychology and MBA degree holder, an esteemed banker with almost 30 years of industry experience. Beyond my career, I am a dutiful wife, a committed mother and a mentor to young ladies and upcoming career leaders.
Your degree is in Psychology. Has understanding people changed the way you approach leadership, relationships, and even self-care?
My Psychology background has made me operate on the premise that no two individuals behave the same way, even twins. This guides my perception and my actions, so I try to deal with people as individuals rather than assume that what works for one person will work for another.
It has helped me excel, succeed, manage people and manoeuvre difficult situations.
As an Executive Director, what qualities do you believe distinguish good leaders from truly exceptional ones?
For me, integrity comes first, followed by excellence, self-drive and the ability to execute. I also value passion, professionalism, diverse knowledge, the ability to work and manage pressure, and empathy.
Every successful woman develops habits that keep her grounded. What routines or rituals have become non-negotiable for you over the years?
Prayer and my personal relationship with God are very important to me. Family matters too, as do true friendships, love for people and kindness.
I have also learnt that personal wellbeing cannot be ignored, and I am very conscious of my health.
Style is more than fashion. It can be an expression of confidence and identity. How would you describe your personal style, and what does it say about you?
I would describe my style as distinct, vibrant, mature, diverse, beautiful and on-point.
Many women aspire to leadership but worry about losing themselves in the process. How have you remained authentic to your true self throughout your leadership journey?
I have learnt to build a strong, assertive and achiever persona while still remaining true to myself.
I also believe in loving yourself by taking care of what matters most. One principle I have held onto is to keep the slogan, “I am sorry,” at a distance by simply making sure you do things right. It may be costly or it may hurt, but I believe in doing what is right and standing by it.
Striving to balance an ambitious career with family life can be hectic. As a wife, mother and senior executive, what has helped you maintain that balance over the years?
I’ve had the support of my spouse and that has made a difference. He is very understanding and simple in his reasoning and actions.
I have also had what I call my reliable silent soldiers, including house help and drivers, who help make life manageable. Immediate family support has been valuable too, as well as a close-knit network of friends. I am also grateful to have had an understanding and supportive boss.
Faith is an important part of your life. How has your relationship with God shaped the way you lead, make difficult decisions and respond to challenges?
For me, it is God first in all things.
I see myself as a child of grace, and I never take that for granted. When situations become difficult, I fall back on my faith. I pray for the will of God and remind myself, “By God’s grace.”
Looking back on your journey, what is one lesson about wellness or balance that you wish you had learnt much earlier in your career?
I wish I had paid more attention to keeping my weight down through healthy eating and getting more sleep.
If you could leave every woman attending Exquisite Magazine’s Wellness & Style Live Experience with one message about living well and leading well, what would it be?
Woman, take care of yourself and believe that you are a success story. Don’t sweat the little stuff.
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As Pamela Shodipo prepares to join the Wellness & Style Live Experience, her perspective adds another meaningful voice to a day centred on living well beyond professional achievement. WAS Live brings together conversations around rest, wellbeing, style and the realities of building a fulfilling life while managing demanding responsibilities.
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