If you got a no, don’t be discouraged. It only means you are probably asking the wrong person or asking the wrong question or you deserve much better. There is always a way, your dreams are valid.
Any “No” you get at any point is not the final answer. In fact you cannot afford to accept it as the final answer. If you got a “no” you are probably asking the wrong person or the wrong question or an even better deal is on its way. This is why you need to be very clear and exact in your mind and on paper about what it is you want to achieve.
Stop listening to counsel from people who don’t know your dreams like you do, or be bullied by your mind that wants to do things that are easier and less tasking. Why be realistic when you can be positive. There is always a lesson from the “no” sayer.
Don’t be discouraged by a ‘no’. It just also means that there is a better way to achieve what you want to achieve, you just need to be persistent, consistent and determined enough to rise above the “no” and look for ways to get a “YES”.
Funny thing with determination is that, the person that ones said no, can still say yes. The “no” is laced with opportunities and ideas to get you to your goal better. FOCUS. Be positive and stand up for YOUR dreams, they are valid.
I can’t tell you how many no’s I have gotten and sometimes still get. It’s unbelievable, but now, with my mind shifted, I deal with the nos with a positive attitude. Its either you don’t understand my vision or I haven’t articulated it well enough for you to understand it. So, I go back to the drawing board, twig things and then either go back or leave them then go back another time.
The good thing about a no is that it helps you reevaluate your plan. It helps you see the holes that might be in your plan, it helps you improve on the plan. Just keep pushing for that yes and it will come. I can assure you that.