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Fall/Winter Trends For Suits and Tuxedos

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As fall and winter approach, men’s formal wear undergoes a transformation, embracing the colder months with rich fabrics, bold designs, and innovative tailoring. Tuxedos and suits, staples of formal occasions, are seeing fresh interpretations that blend timeless elegance with modern influences. This season, the focus is on combining tradition with contemporary details, allowing men to make statements that are both sophisticated and fashion-forward.

One of the standout elements this season is the choice of fabric. Velvet is making a strong return, offering a luxurious texture that feels both opulent and appropriate for colder weather. Velvet tuxedos, in deep hues like emerald, burgundy, and midnight blue, create a striking look that’s perfect for formal events during the holiday season. These rich colors, combined with the soft sheen of velvet, bring a sense of drama to classic tuxedo silhouettes. Wool also remains a go-to for suits, particularly heavier weight options that provide warmth while maintaining a refined appearance. Flannel and tweed are also gaining popularity, offering both texture and a nod to heritage tailoring.

In terms of tailoring, this season leans toward a structured yet relaxed fit. While the sharp, slim-cut suit remains a favorite, there is a shift toward a slightly looser silhouette. The jackets are often tailored with strong shoulders but allow for more movement in the torso, giving a relaxed, comfortable feel without sacrificing the polished look. Trousers, too, are evolving, with a move away from ultra-skinny styles toward straight-leg and even pleated designs. This subtle shift offers more versatility, allowing the wearer to transition from formal events to more casual settings with ease.

 

Details are also playing a significant role this season, adding personality to traditional formalwear. Peak lapels are making a comeback, offering a more dramatic alternative to the slimmer notch lapel, while shawl collars on tuxedos remain a classic choice for black-tie events. For those looking to add a touch of individuality, bold linings, contrasting stitching, and unique button details provide opportunities to personalize an otherwise conventional ensemble.

Color is another defining element of this season’s trends. While black and navy will always be staples of formalwear, the fall/winter season welcomes a broader palette. Earth tones, like deep browns, olives, and burgundies, bring a warmth that complements the cooler weather. Monochromatic looks, where the suit, shirt, and tie are all in shades of the same color, are also gaining traction, offering a sleek and modern alternative to more traditional contrasting combinations.

Layering is also key during the colder months, and this season, the three-piece suit is making a strong return. Vests add an additional layer of sophistication and warmth, allowing for a more complete and versatile look. Whether worn as part of a formal ensemble or paired separately with trousers and a turtleneck for a more relaxed style, the vest is a statement piece in its own right this fall and winter.

Accessories continue to play an essential role in completing the look. This season, ties are taking on more texture, with wool and knit options providing a break from traditional silk. Pocket squares, cufflinks, and watches remain timeless accents, while scarves in bold patterns or luxurious fabrics like cashmere are practical additions that enhance the overall style.

As we move through fall and into the winter months, men’s formalwear continues to evolve, striking a balance between classic and contemporary. Tuxedos and suits are reimagined through rich fabrics, innovative tailoring, and attention to detail, ensuring that men have the opportunity to express personal style even in the most formal of settings. This season, it’s all about embracing comfort and sophistication, with looks that are both timeless and undeniably modern.

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ELOY Awards | 2018 Nominees List

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The 10th Edition of The Exquisite Lady of the Year, ELOY Awards is gradually drawing near and preparations are in full gear. In 2009, a long conceived idea came to life; Exquisite Magazine, the organizers of this prestigious award, led by its publisher Tewa Onasanya, have been consistently celebrating women of excellence in their different fields to empower and inspire other women.

The spotlight is beaming on women. It is evident in Nigeria and around the world, as policymakers, financial institutions, business support organizations and more are waking up to the idea that women are good for the economic prosperity of the nation and they are recognizing the untapped potential of women.

The ELOY Awards is first of its kind to be consistently held in Nigeria. The aim is to have it grow each year as we recognize and award outstanding women and their roles in society. From their humble beginnings, they have grown to become people other women and men can admire and emulate while striving for success.

Every year, the ELOY awards planning committee meet to evaluate the women chosen by the general public to vet and pick the women with the highest nomination, who then make up the nominees list to be voted for by the general public. This year the voting runs from now through to the 18th of November 2018 and some selected categories include: HE4SHE, ELOY BANKING AND FINANCE AWARD, ELOY AWARD FOR POLITICS, ELOY LIFETIME ACHIEVEMENT AWARDS, etc. Winners are chosen by a selected Committee of ELOY members.

The voting windows are open and the 2018 ELOY awards nominees can be voted for by the public. The awards include:

ACTRESS  OF THE YEAR IN ASSOCIATION WITH LUSH HAIR:

This is for a woman who has demonstrated great creativity in the use of her talent. Nominees are..

  1. MERCY JOHNSON OKOJIE, Seven & a Half Dates.
  2. TOYIN ABRAHAM, Ghost and the Tout
  3. BIMBO ADEMOYE, Backup Wife
  4. BISOLA AIYEOLA, Pay Day
  5. ZAINAB BALOGUN, Sylvia
  6. CHIGUL, Crazy People
  7. BUKUNMI OLUWASINA, Ranti Mi

ELOY AWARDS FOR AUTHOR:

This is for a woman who has published her books within the ELOY year and done great marketing for it. Nominees are…

  1. NINA IPHECHUKWUDE ANYIANUKA, Disowned
  2. AMAKA CHIKA-MBONU, How to Get Your Wife to Swing From a Chandelier in a Red Negligee
  3. BETTY IRABOR, Dust to Dew
  4. LAURA IKEJI, How to Make Money on Instagram
  5. TOSIN AJIBADE, Misfit to Hero

CHEF OF THE YEAR AWARD.

This award recognizes a woman who has been consistent in her passion for culinary and also versatile in her craft. Nominees are…

  1. Imoteda, Heels in the Kitchen
  2. Nengis Kitchen
  3. Chef Zoeyblaq
  4. Ozoz Sokoh – Kitchen Butterfly
  5. Dobbies Signature
  6. Ronke Edoho – 9jafoodie

ELOY AWARDS FOR TECHNOLOGY /ICT:

This award recognizes a woman who has used science and technology to create a platform offering knowledge, service, product or solution. Nominees are…

  1. Omowale David Ashiru, Country Director Andela.
  2. Nkemdili Begho, Future Resource Limited.
  3. Lotana Ezeogu, Skills Tribe
  4. Lola Ekugo, Head Digital Innov Lab FBN, Founder Transthat.
  5. Aramide Abe – Naija Startups
  6. Abisoye Akinfolarin – Ajayi, Pearl Initiative

ACCESSORY DESIGNER OF THE YEAR:

An award for an accessory designer who has been consistent and creative within the ELOY Year. Nominees are…

  1. Ariaba Lifestyle
  2. Raya Jewelery
  3. Kene Rapu
  4. Morin.O
  5. Urez Kulture
  6. Femi Handbags

ELOY AWARDS FOR AGRICULTURE:

A woman who has achieved significant recognition and business success in the agricultural business field with great impact in her community and country as a whole. Nominees are…

  1. Olusola Sowemimo, Ope Farms
  2. Ada Osakwe, Agrolay
  3. Fatima Oyia Ademoh, Ajima Farms
  4. Mosunmola Umoru, Farms Shoppe
  5. Ifeoluwa Ariyo, Forth Worth Farms
  6. Aderonke Aderinoye, AgriHub Nigeria

ON AIR PERSONALITY OF THE YEAR (RADIO):

This is for a woman who has been consistently creative on air. Nominees are…

  1. Honey Ojukwu, UrbanFM Enugu
  2. Sandra Ezekwesili, CoolFM PH
  3. Maryanne Duke Okon, Nigeriainfo PH
  4. Shine Begho, MaxFM Lagos
  5. Sabina, Naijainfo Lagos
  6. Folu Storm – Smooth FM, Lagos
  7. Joyce Onyemuwa – Cool FM, Lagos

ELOY AWARD FOR EMPOWERMENT:

This is for a woman who has contributed to and invested in mentoring, inspiring and empowering other women. Nominees are…

  1. Chisom Ogbumuo, The Conversation Cafe.
  2. Funke Oguntuga, Heartminders
  3. Nkem Okocha, Mamamoni
  4. Mercy Makinde, Amazing Amazon’s initiative.
  5. Success Omaje Julius, Experience Dev hub.

SOCIAL ENTREPRENEUR OF THE YEAR AWARD:

A woman who has made a significant social impact in the community and Nigeria as a w whole. Has provided a solution to cultural, education, environmental or financial challenges with her innovative product or service. Nominees are…

  1. Augusta Nwokafor, Enterprising Women Nigeria.
  2. Esther Ijewere, Women of Rubies
  3. Temilade Salami, ECOWarriors
  4. Bilikiss Adebiyi Abiola, Wecyclers
  5. Yetunde Fadeyi, Reesafrica.
  6. Achenyo Idachaba – Obaro, Mitimeth

SOCIAL MEDIA PERSONALITY OF THE YEAR SPONSORED BY LUFTHANSA:

This award is for a woman who has demonstrated great social media follower ship which she uses to promote her brand and other brands. This Award category is sponsored by Lufthansa Airlines. Nominees are…

  1. Nelly Agbogu, Naijabrandchick
  2. Hustlersquare
  3. Cynthia Nwadiora, CEE C
  4. Gloria Oloruntobi, Maraji
  5. Uriel Oputa
  6. Bisola Aiyeola

 

FASHION DESIGNER OF THE YEAR SPONSORED BY LUSH HAIR :

An award for a fashion designer who has been consistent and creative within the ELOY year. Nominees are…

  1. Nonninstics
  2. Style Temple
  3. Tubo
  4. Moofa Designs
  5. Wanni Fuga
  6. Imad Eduso
  7. Gozel Green

ELOY AWARD FOR JOURNALISM AND MEDIA (PRINT AND DIGITAL):

This is for a woman in journalism who has demonstrated integrity and passion for her work. Nominees are…

  1. Steph Busari
  2. Peace Hyde
  3. Didi Akin
  4. Amina Yuguda
  5. Azuka Ogujiuba
  6. Toyosi Ogunseye

ELOY HOSPITALITY AWARD:

This is for a woman in the hospitality industry. She could be a tour operator, travel agent, hotelier. Nominees are…

  1. Nike Majekodunmi, Nuts About Cake
  2. Reni Folawiyo,  Alara
  3. Tiyan Alile, Culinary School Nigeria
  4. Wonu Lamidi, Travel Solution
  5. Dorcas George, The George Hotel
  6. Amaka Amatokwu, WIHN

MILLENNIAL ENTREPRENEUR OF THE YEAR SPONSORED BY EDIYE BEAUTY & WELLNESS:

This award is for a millennial female (under 35) entrepreneur who has demonstrated success in her sector through her work, leadership and excellence. Nominees are…

  1. Nike Majekodunmi, Nuts About cake
  2. Reni Folawiyo,  Alara
  3. Tiyan Alile, Culinary School Nigeria
  4. Wonu Lamidi, Travel Solution
  5. Dorcas George, The George Hotel
  6. Amaka Amatokwu, WIHN

ENTREPRENEUR OF THE YEAR:

This award is for a female entrepreneur who has demonstrated success in her sector through her work, leadership and excellence. Nominees are…

  1. Matse Nnoli, MatseCooks Seasonings
  2. Ifedayo Durosimi Etti and Olamide Olatunbosun, Parliamo Bambini
  3. Abimbola Ipaye, Bimmms24
  4. Adedamola Ladejobi, Ask Damz
  5. Arese Ugwu, Smart Money Woman
  6. Ijeoma Ndukwe, Bubez Foods

ELOY BANKING AND FINANCE AWARD:

This is for a woman who has shown great integrity, leadership and excellence in the banking and finance industry.

ELOY HE4SHE AWARD:

This award is for a man that advocates for women and/or a company that advocates for women welfare.

ELOY INNOVATION / INVENTION AWARD:

This is an award for a woman who has used her skills to create innovative ways to solve problems and also invented solutions to different challenges. Nominees are…

  1. Oluwayimika angel Adelaja, Fresh Direct
  2. Temi Giwa Tubosun, Life Bank Direct
  3. Uche Pedro, Bella Naija
  4. Dr Ola Brown, Flying Doctors
  5. Afua Osei & Yasmin Bello-Osagie, She Leads Africa.

SCRIPT WRITER OF THE YEAR:

Recognizes the excellence of a woman in SCRIPT WRITING. Nominees are…

  1. VIVIAN CHIJI, Ojukwu The Heiress, Losing Control, Cougars
  2. DAMI ELEBE, From Lagos with Love, Skinny Girl in transit
  3. RITA ONWURA, Meet the In Laws, High Stakes
  4. DORIS ARIOLE, Benevolence

ELOY LIFETIME ACHIEVEMENT AWARD:

This will be presented to an established woman for her prolonged and consistent achievements in her business. She is a role model worth emulating who has displayed exceptional leadership over time.

ELOY AWARD FOR POLITICS:

This is for a woman in politics.

TV ACTRESS OF THE YEAR AND WEB SERIES:

  1. Jemima Osunda, Rumour Has It
  2. Adebukola Oladipupo, MTV Shuga
  3. Ini Dima Okojie, Battleground
  4. Lota Chukwu, Ajoche
  5. Lilian Afegbai, Ajoche

The voting windows have been opened as women all over the world have started voting for women who are doing great in their various fields. We encourage women to vote for the women who they feel deserve to win.

How to VOTE
You can vote for your favorite Exquisite Ladies on eloyawards.com

BABAJIDE SANWO-OLU: THE CHOSEN ONE

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Few weeks ago, I woke up to the buzz of different types of publicity
on social media that were promoting a man, the chosen man, BABAJIDE SANWO-OLU of the ALL PROGRESSIVE CONGRESS (APC) party. By now, it is no news who he is and what this name stand for.
I wondered how, all of a sudden, people decided who they wanted as the “incoming Governor” of Lagos state. I knew there was more to this, and I didn’t even need to do a long research.
Sanwo-Olu
No doubt, Mr Sanwo-Olu has been in government for quite some time, and many find him tested and trusted enough to handle the affairs of the people.
Whatever it is, it is evident that there were or are some lapses with the current government. And also, the people have so much trust in Mr Sanwo-Olu.
Few of the things that struck me in my discovery about BOS are that:
• He is loved by the people;
• He is passionate about the grassroots;
• He was not just endorsed by the Baba Asiwaju Bola Tinubu, the “who-is-who,” the state law makers, and many other groups in government, but the masses also have so much faith and trust in him.
And though he is yet to assume the role of the Governor, the atmosphere in Lagos feels like he already has;
Sanwo-Olu
• From his speeches so far, he appears to be a good listener. He craves to listen to the needs of his people, and is eager to act once the baton has been passed to him.
There are quite a number of controversies about the current governance, regarding the implementation of the blueprint for the governance of this city of over 18 million people that come from different ethnic backgrounds and beliefs.
But one thing is sure, we love Lagos, and we look forward to the mega city promised us.
Sanwo-Olu
Though a lot of faith is placed on the chosen one, it is evident that he will definitely be in the system for the next four years at least, and will hopefully change the narrative away from how things are derailing.
Believe me, the time is now. I am eager, so eager, for 2019. Let’s get this started. Long live the city of Lagos. Long live Nigeria. Igbega Eko ti di ajumose!!!
Written by: Shote Ayomide Damilola

Welcome to Audacious August: The Cost of Playing Small

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There comes a point in every woman’s life when she has to make a decision.
Will I continue living according to my fears, or will I begin living according to my vision?
Many women are not limited by a lack of intelligence, education or opportunity. They are limited by the stories they tell themselves.
“I’m not ready.”
“I’m too old.”
“There are already too many people doing what I want to do.”
“What if people judge me?”
These thoughts quietly shape careers, businesses and lives. They keep brilliant women hidden, talented entrepreneurs invisible and future leaders silent.
The tragedy is not that these women lack potential. The tragedy is that they never fully express it.
Playing small rarely feels dramatic. It looks like postponing your dream until next year. It sounds like saying no to an opportunity because you doubt yourself. It feels like remaining in your comfort zone because uncertainty is uncomfortable.
Yet every time you choose fear over purpose, something valuable is lost.
The world misses your ideas.
Your community misses your leadership.
Your family misses the example of a woman who dared to believe in herself.
Living audaciously doesn’t mean living recklessly. It means making intentional decisions aligned with the future you desire.
It means protecting your wellbeing while pursuing success. It means embracing visibility as an act of service rather than self-promotion. It means understanding that confidence is built through action, not perfection.
This is why mindset matters. Before the world believes in you, you must believe in yourself. Before clients invest in your business, you must invest in your growth. Before opportunities arrive, you must prepare yourself to receive them.
As we begin Audacious August, I invite you to make one bold commitment. Choose one action you’ve been postponing and do it.
Send the proposal.
Launch the product.
Apply for the opportunity.
Speak up in the meeting.
Share your story.
Raise your hand.
Your future is not built by waiting. It is built by courageous decisions repeated consistently.
This month, don’t just admire the woman you want to become. Become her.
Written by Dr. Tewa Onasanya

Finish Strong: Why the Last Week of the Month Matters

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There is something powerful about the last week of the month.

For many of us, it’s easy to focus on what we haven’t achieved, the goals left unchecked, the opportunities we missed, or the plans that didn’t unfold as expected. But what if we chose a different perspective?

What if, instead of ending the month with pressure, we ended it with purpose?

Progress isn’t always loud. Sometimes, it’s found in the quiet victories we often overlook: thinking differently, responding with more patience, setting healthier boundaries, prioritising our wellbeing, or simply showing up consistently when life felt challenging.

These moments may not make headlines, but they shape the person you are becoming.

As we step into the final days of July, resist the urge to compare your journey with anyone else’s. Instead, pause and acknowledge your growth. Celebrate the lessons you’ve learned, the resilience you’ve built, and the courage it took to keep moving forward.

Then ask yourself three simple questions:

What is one thing I still want to complete before this month ends? What is one habit, fear or mindset I need to let go of? What is one win I will intentionally celebrate?

Success is not only about achieving more; it’s also about becoming more intentional. Every small action you take today contributes to the future you are creating.

So, finish this month with gratitude instead of regret. Finish with confidence instead of comparison. Finish with peace instead of pressure.

Because every step you take—even the small ones—is moving you closer to the life you desire.

Affirmation

I finish this month with gratitude, confidence and peace. Every step I take is moving me closer to the life I desire.

Something to look forward to in the next few weeks is the Wellness and Style Live Experience. A day of intentional Wellness reset. Join us on saturday the 12th of Sept. Tickets being sold here – https://exquisitemag.com/the-wellness-and-style-experience/

Written by Dr Tewa Onasanya

How to Make Daily Life Feel More Beautiful

Many people spend the week waiting for the next exciting event. A holiday, a birthday, a promotion or a weekend outing becomes the highlight while the days in between pass without much thought. Yet those ordinary days make up most of life, and they deserve just as much attention.

There is no rule that says fresh flowers belong only on special occasions or that favourite outfits should stay hidden until there is an invitation worth dressing up for. A candle can be lit during dinner on a Tuesday. Breakfast can be served on a proper plate instead of eaten while rushing out the door. Music can fill the room while dinner is being prepared. These choices make daily routines feel richer and far more enjoyable.

Food has a place beyond satisfying hunger. A colourful breakfast served on a proper plate, fresh fruit arranged in a bowl, or a homemade dinner enjoyed without scrolling through a phone can make an ordinary meal feel like an occasion. Trying a new recipe at the weekend, baking a favourite dessert or visiting a restaurant that has been on the list for months adds variety to familiar routines.

Pleasure doesn’t have to come with a large price tag. A visit to a local café, an evening walk after work, reading a chapter of a novel before bed or buying fresh fruit from the market can become moments to look forward to. The day feels different when ordinary routines receive a little more care.

Getting dressed can also change the mood of the day. Clothes that inspire confidence shouldn’t be saved for celebrations. A favourite perfume, polished shoes or a handbag that has not been used in weeks can make an ordinary afternoon feel special. Looking presentable isn’t only for other people. It is also a way of appreciating the life being lived today instead of waiting for a better occasion.

A journal is another beautiful companion. Instead of filling its pages only after major achievements, write about the pleasant conversation over lunch, the meal that turned out well or the sunset seen on the journey home. Those entries become reminders that happiness grows through many ordinary moments.

Relationships deserve the same attention. Calling a loved one without waiting for a reason, inviting a friend to lunch or preparing dinner with family creates memories that last much longer than expensive gifts. Warm relationships are built through regular acts of care.

Life won’t become perfect overnight. There will still be deadlines, disappointments and responsibilities. Even so, there is plenty of room for joy between them. The tea enjoyed in peace before work, the book read before sleeping, the flowers placed on the dining table and the laughter shared during dinner all add colour to days that might otherwise be forgotten.

The best memories are not always created during life’s biggest celebrations. Many begin on completely ordinary days that were simply lived with a little more care and appreciation.

For more inspiring editorials on wellness, confidence, fashion, beauty and lifestyle, visit Exquisite Magazine and discover fresh ideas that make every day feel a little more meaningful.

Written by Aliyah O.

Old Is “Sometimes” Better

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Fashion has never really been new. Every decade borrows from another, sometimes obviously, sometimes not. Style, in its truest form, never disappears. The shift dresses of the 60s inspired the slip dresses of the 90s, which are now inspiring silk midis again. Shoulder pads come and go, denim flares return every few years, and old prints find their way back into stores with new labels and price tags.

You can always tell when something is truly vintage. The fabric feels heavier, the buttons are firmer, and the stitching actually makes sense. Clothes from back then were made with a kind of patience that’s hard to find now. A vintage dress isn’t simply a relic of the past. It’s a reminder of how things used to be made, which sticthing once mattered, how buttons were sewn to last and hems were meant to be let down, not thrown away. Vintage fashion represents a slower, more thoughtful era of clothing, and right now, that’s exactly what feels fresh.

People are paying attention to detail again. They’re reaching for structure, craftsmanship, and fabrics that hold weight. A 70s satin gown still drapes differently from anything you’d buy off a rack today. Even the imperfections: a small tear here, a faded tag there, feel like proof of character. Modern clothes often try to look “vintage-inspired,” but they don’t hold a candle on true vintage pieces.

There is a certain sensuality in wearing a piece that has lived before you. A certain sophistication as the dress slips down your body, the earring dangles from your ears or as you gracefully clutch the bag. 

There’s a difference between thrift and vintage. Thrift is about affordability and access. Vintage is about timeless style. It’s the reason a person clasps an old beaded clutch with the same pride another person wears a designer bag. Vintage isn’t second-hand. It’s classic.

There’s a sense of connection that comes with owning vintage. You’re wearing something that once had a life. It might have danced at a wedding, sat in a theatre, or sailed across an ocean decades ago. Every time you wear it, you’re adding to that story. With vintage pieces, you feel parts of another era. Wear a dress like it’s 1965. It’s not about nostalgia for another time, but about appreciating how certain things endure, the cut of a skirt, the weight of silk, the quiet authority of a well-made shoe.

The fun part of vintage is how easily it blends into modern wardrobes. A 90s silk blouse can look completely new with straight-leg jeans. A 50s handbag adds character to a minimalist outfit. Even a vintage belt can change how a simple dress feels. It’s the mix that makes it interesting; pairing old with new until it feels like you.

Fashion cycles may spin fast, but quality doesn’t change. A good cut is still a good cut. Well-made clothes still stand out. And no matter how modern we get, there’s something reassuring in knowing that what was beautiful before remains beautiful now.

Old is not outdated. It’s proof that fashion, at its best, never truly ages, it just keeps finding new people to wear it.

For more wardrobe guides, styling tips, and fashion inspiration, follow Exquisite Magazine and read our weekly editorials. Let us help you build a personal style that works for every part of your life.

Written by Aliyah O. 

How to Recover After a Confidence Knock

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Your confidence can feel rock solid for years until one difficult moment changes everything. A failed interview, public criticism, rejection, a business setback or a personal disappointment can leave anyone questioning their abilities. The memory of that experience lingers for a while, making even simple tasks feel harder than they did before.

A lot of people believe confidence disappears overnight, but that is not always true. What changes is trust. After a painful experience, it becomes harder to trust personal judgement, decisions and abilities. Every new opportunity begins to feel like another chance to fail, so hesitation replaces enthusiasm.

Recovery begins by accepting that confidence does not return all at once. Waiting to feel completely ready before taking another step usually keeps people stuck in the same place. Small actions rebuild trust more effectively than endless reflection. Replying to that email, attending the networking event, applying for another role or speaking up during a meeting may seem ordinary, yet each action proves that one difficult experience does not define every future opportunity.

It also helps to separate one event from personal identity. A presentation that did not go well does not mean a person is a poor speaker. Losing a client does not prove a business has no value. Rejection does not erase talent, experience or hard work. Looking at facts instead of assumptions makes it easier to see the full picture rather than a single disappointing chapter.

Another helpful step is paying attention to personal progress instead of comparing achievements with other people. Comparing every milestone with another person’s success creates unnecessary pressure. Looking back at personal growth over the past year gives a more accurate reminder of how far a person has come. Confidence grows more steadily when progress becomes the standard for measurement.

The people kept close during this period also matter. Honest encouragement from trusted friends, family members or mentors can provide perspective when self-doubt becomes louder than reality. Their role is not to offer empty praise but to remind a person of strengths that become difficult to recognise after disappointment.

Looking after physical wellbeing also plays a part in rebuilding confidence. Good sleep, regular movement and proper nutrition improve concentration and energy, making daily challenges feel more manageable. A tired mind is more likely to magnify mistakes and overlook achievements.

Recovery is also easier when people stop demanding perfection from themselves. Every successful person has experienced rejection, criticism or failure at different stages of life. Those experiences did not end their progress. They became lessons that strengthened future decisions. Confidence grows through experience, and experience includes moments that do not go according to plan.

One difficult chapter should never become the headline of an entire life. Every day presents another opportunity to learn, improve and try again with greater wisdom than before. Confidence is rebuilt through consistent action, honest self-reflection and patience. The process may take time, but each step forward proves that one setback never has the final word.

For more inspiring editorials on confidence, wellness, fashion, beauty and personal growth, visit Exquisite Magazine. Discover fresh perspectives that help women live boldly, embrace new opportunities and become the best version of themselves. You can also advertise your brand with Exquisite Magazine and connect with an audience that values style, excellence and purpose.

Written by Aliyah O. 

Beyond the Screen: Jadesola Popoola on Raising a Media-Literate Generation Rooted in Faith

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Screens have become constant companions, the messages people consume every day shape how they think, what they value, and how they see themselves. For author, media literacy advocate and founder of Jade Media Communications, Jadesola Popoola, helping people recognise that influence has become a lifelong mission.

Driven by faith, Jadesola champions what she calls Media Literacy with a Godly Lens, an approach that encourages children, parents, schools, churches and communities to engage with media critically while remaining grounded in biblical values. Her work extends beyond media education into women’s wellness through Body Love, an initiative that challenges unrealistic beauty standards and encourages women to embrace their God-given worth.

In this conversation with Exquisite Magazine, she shares the calling behind her work, why media literacy has become an essential life skill, and her vision for raising a generation that is wise, discerning and confident in its identity.

Your work sits at the intersection of media literacy, faith and wellness. What personal experiences led you to build your life’s work around these three areas?

My work in media literacy, faith and wellness is divinely inspired. I received what I believe was God’s calling to pursue media literacy with a godly lens when I was about 18 years old. Since then, I have been committed to helping people understand the powerful influence media has on our lives.

Over the years, many experiences have reinforced that calling. My own life has shown me how deeply media can influence people, whether positively or negatively, and I have seen the same pattern reflected in countless others.

The wellness aspect naturally grew from this work because media literacy is an umbrella that covers many areas of life. The media shapes how people see themselves, influences confidence, aspirations, body image and self-worth. Body Love was born from recognising that connection. It became an extension of my media literacy work because helping people think critically about media also means helping them develop healthier perspectives about themselves.

Ultimately, my mission is to help people become more discerning about what they consume and to recognise that media has a profound impact on individuals and society.

You describe yourself as a pioneer of “Media Literacy with a Godly Lens”. What does that concept mean, and why is it especially relevant today?

Media is far more than a source of information. It teaches, introduces ideas and shapes perspectives. It can become the primary voice that influences how people think about life if there is no stronger voice to guide them.

Media Literacy with a Godly Lens teaches people to analyse media critically while measuring every message against biblical truth. It is not enough to ask whether a message is popular or entertaining. We must also ask whether it aligns with God’s values.

For example, media may present cybercrime as an easy way to make money or portray destructive behaviours as acceptable. A person who applies a biblical perspective recognises that these actions are wrong regardless of how they are packaged.

We also see films and television programmes promoting ideas that encourage people to reject family life or redefine values that Scripture clearly addresses. Media literacy with a godly lens helps people recognise these messages instead of accepting them without question.

This is especially important today because media has become an ever-present teacher. It quietly shapes opinions, beliefs and behaviour, often without people even realising it. That hidden influence makes discernment more necessary than ever.

As the founder of Jade Media Communications, what are some of the biggest media-related challenges you see affecting children, parents, schools and churches?

Children are learning about life, relationships, success, identity and even morality from media before many parents have those conversations with them. Their perspectives are being formed during the most impressionable years of their lives.

Many parents do not fully understand the scale of media’s influence because they did not grow up in such a media-saturated environment. Schools are largely focused on academic achievement, yet media is shaping students just as powerfully. That is why media literacy should be part of education rather than treated as an optional topic.

Churches also have an important role to play. Too often, believers consume the same messages as everyone else, allowing culture to influence them rather than influencing culture themselves.

One example is the “Devious Licks” trend in the United States, where students vandalised school property and posted videos online. It spread rapidly because young people copied what they repeatedly saw on social media. It demonstrated how easily media can normalise destructive behaviour when critical thinking is absent.

The first step is greater awareness. People need to understand how media influences them before they can respond wisely.

Many people view media as harmless entertainment. In what ways do you believe it shapes values, identity and behaviour without people realising it?

Media rarely changes people overnight. It shapes them gradually through repeated exposure.

Advertising has always relied on repetition because marketers understand that familiarity influences decisions. Entertainment functions in much the same way. The messages people consume repeatedly begin to shape their beliefs, expectations and behaviour.

If girls constantly see one body type celebrated, many begin comparing themselves to that standard. If aggression is consistently rewarded in entertainment, some boys may begin to see it as desirable. When luxury is repeatedly presented as the definition of success, people can begin to value appearance above purpose.

Media even influences language. New phrases and expressions quickly become part of everyday conversation after gaining popularity online.

That is why people must stop consuming media passively. They need to engage with it consciously, asking questions and thinking critically about the messages they are absorbing.

 

Your children’s book, “Sometimes I Watch Things”, introduces media literacy at an early age. Why is it important to begin these conversations with children rather than waiting until they are older?

Children do not suddenly become media consumers as teenagers. Many begin interacting with smartphones before they can even read properly.

If media is already shaping them, then media education should begin just as early. We teach children to look both ways before crossing the road and to avoid talking to strangers before they encounter danger. Media literacy should work in the same way by preparing children before they face unhealthy influences.

Sometimes I Watch Things was written to help children understand that not everything they watch is automatically good or acceptable. It encourages them, in an age-appropriate way, to ask questions and develop discernment.

Even content designed for very young children can contain harmful messages. My hope is that children grow into adults who think critically, recognise unhealthy influences and make wise decisions rather than accepting everything they see.

Your annual initiative, Body Love, encourages women to reject unrealistic beauty standards. What inspired you to start this movement?

Body Love began with concern for the messages women continually absorb about their appearance.

Much of today’s media tells women they are not enough unless they change how they look. That belief has contributed to the rise of cosmetic procedures and unhealthy beauty practices, with many women risking their wellbeing in pursuit of constantly changing trends.

I wanted to create a platform that reminds women their value is not determined by appearance. As a Christian, I believe every person has inherent worth because they were created by God.

Body Love encourages women to embrace themselves fully, reject harmful beauty standards and understand that trends will always change, but their value never does.

Social media constantly promotes changing beauty ideals. What practical advice would you give women who are struggling to separate their self-worth from their appearance?

The first question I encourage women to ask is, “Who told me I wasn’t enough?”

When people honestly answer that question, they often discover that the messages came from repeated media exposure rather than from those who genuinely love them.

Another important step is intentionally curating your social media feed. Algorithms simply respond to what people engage with. If someone continually interacts with content that fuels comparison and insecurity, they will see more of it.

Instead, fill your feed with content that encourages spiritual growth, personal development, business, learning and wisdom.

Most importantly, understand that your worth is innate. Appearance should never define value because physical trends constantly change. Identity rooted in God does not.

Practising gratitude for what your body enables you to do, rather than becoming consumed by appearance, also helps create a healthier perspective.

Your work consistently points people back to truth and godly values. How can faith help people make wiser decisions about the media they consume?

Faith provides a filter.

Without a clear foundation, people are far more likely to accept whatever media presents as normal or desirable. Scripture gives us a standard against which every message can be measured.

In my children’s book, every section includes a question asking readers how the message compares with God’s values and biblical teaching. That simple exercise encourages children to evaluate media rather than simply absorbing it.

Media consumes our time, attention and emotions just as much as we consume it. Faith helps ensure that influence leads us towards truth rather than deception.

As an author, civil servant, advocate and founder, how have you balanced these different roles while remaining committed to your purpose?

I do not see myself as having several different purposes. I see one purpose expressed through different roles.

Whether I am writing books, leading Body Love, advocating for media literacy or serving in my profession, the mission remains the same. I want to help people live healthier, wiser and more discerning lives that are guided by God.

The different roles simply provide different opportunities to fulfil that single calling.

Looking ahead, what impact do you hope your work in media literacy, women’s wellness and value-based education will have on the next generation?

I hope the next generation grows up equipped, not merely educated.

I want children to think critically about the media they consume instead of accepting everything they see as truth. I want young women to appreciate themselves as God created them rather than measuring themselves against unrealistic online standards.

I hope parents feel confident discussing media at home, schools recognise media literacy as an essential life skill, and churches equip believers to navigate today’s digital culture with wisdom and discernment.

Ultimately, I want to see a generation that is secure in its identity, grounded in godly values and capable of influencing culture instead of simply being influenced by it.

Media literacy is no longer optional. Every day people are exposed to thousands of messages that quietly shape their thinking, values and sense of identity. Through Jade Media Communications, my books and my programmes, my goal is to help people engage thoughtfully with media, remain rooted in God’s truth and live confidently in the identity He has given them.

If more children become critical thinkers, more women embrace their God-given worth and more families become intentional about what shapes their minds, then I will know the work has made a lasting difference.

A Final Word

Jadesola Popoola’s work reminds us that media is never just entertainment. Every message has the potential to influence beliefs, choices and identity. Her mission challenges individuals, families and institutions to engage with media thoughtfully while remaining anchored in timeless values that promote wisdom, confidence and healthy living.

As part of her commitment to helping women embrace their God-given worth, Jadesola Popoola will host the next edition of Body Love, an inspiring gathering that encourages women to reject unrealistic beauty standards and pursue holistic wellness. The event will feature practical conversations on identity, confidence, health and faith, creating a supportive environment for women to grow, connect and rediscover their value beyond appearance. To register or learn more about the upcoming Body Love event, click the link below.

https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1991357010424?aff=oddtdtcreator

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Letter To The Younger Self

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Dear Her,

This comes from a place you are still working toward; a place you’ll get to soon enough.

When it comes to your ambitions, dream big, and then break that big dream into smaller steps you can complete this week. Show up early. Stay to ask one extra question. Volunteer for the task that scares you a little. People will remember how reliable you were long before they remember your title. Ambition without discipline will tire you out, so pair it with rest and planning.

At work, learn the skill and learn the people. Do the job well, and also learn how to explain what you do in one clear sentence. Write your emails with care. Meet deadlines before they are due. When you make a mistake, own it quickly and fix it. That is how trust is built.

Confidence will not feel like confidence at the start. It will feel like nervous hands and a fast heart. Speak anyway. Prepare your three points before every meeting. Breathe before you answer. Look people in the eye. Each time you speak up, it becomes easier the next time. Your voice is needed in rooms where decisions are made, so do not remove yourself from those rooms.

Now, about people. Network with genuine curiosity. Ask, “What are you working on?” and listen to the answer. Follow up with a message that references what they said. Keep a list of names and check in with them without asking for anything.

Be strategic with friendships, and be good with them too. Keep close the women who tell you the truth, who celebrate your wins, and who call you when you are slacking. Pour into those friendships. Send the voice note. Remember the important dates. Introduce people to each other. The right relationships will open doors, and the right relationships will also keep you grounded when the doors get heavy.

Take wellness seriously. Sleep eight hours when you can. Drink water. Move your body in a way that makes you feel strong, not punished. Eat food that gives you energy for long days. See a doctor for check-ups. Your health is the foundation for everything else you want to build, so protect it.

Beauty and fashion are part of how you show up. Learn what fits your body and makes you feel capable. Invest in a blazer that tailors well, shoes you can walk in, and a lip colour that makes you smile in the mirror. Take care of your skin. Dress for the meeting, for the event, and for yourself. Style is not vanity. It is communication. It tells people you respect yourself and the room you are entering.

You will have days when you doubt everything. On those days, return to your why. Read the goals you wrote down. Call the friend who reminds you who you are. Do the next small task anyway. Progress is built from small, consistent actions.

Be kind to yourself while you are becoming. You are allowed to learn in public. You are allowed to change your mind. You are allowed to say no.

I am proud of the woman you are becoming. Keep going.

With love,
Every Woman

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Written by Aliyah O. 

How to Speak with Confidence Even When You’re Nervous

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Many people believe confident speakers are born with a natural gift. They picture a person who walks into a room, speaks without hesitation and never worries about making a mistake. That picture is far from reality. Even experienced speakers feel nervous before a presentation, a meeting or an important conversation. The difference is that they have learnt how to keep speaking even when fear is present.

Feeling nervous is not a sign that you are incapable. It usually means the conversation matters to you. A job interview, a class presentation, a difficult discussion with a friend or the chance to share an idea at work can all make your heart race. Waiting for the fear to disappear before speaking may keep you silent for longer than you realise.

Confidence grows through preparation. People who know what they want to say spend time organising their thoughts before speaking. You don’t need to memorise every sentence. Instead, decide on the main points you want people to remember. This gives you a clear direction and helps you recover if you lose your train of thought.

Your breathing also makes a difference. Nervousness encourages people to speak too quickly, leaving little room to think. Taking one slow breath before you begin helps steady your voice and gives your brain a moment to settle. It may feel like a small action, but it can improve the way your words come across.

It also helps to slow your pace. Many people rush through their sentences, hoping to finish before anyone notices they are anxious. Speaking more slowly makes your message easier to understand. It also gives you time to choose your words carefully instead of filling every pause with “um” or “you know”. A brief pause is far less distracting than a stream of rushed speech.

Another useful habit is to focus on the message instead of your performance. Nervous speakers spend too much time wondering how they look, whether their voice sounds strange or whether people are judging them. That internal conversation steals attention from the point they are trying to make. Put your energy into helping your listeners understand your message. People remember useful ideas far more than tiny mistakes.

Accept that mistakes will happen. You may lose your place, mispronounce a word or forget part of a sentence. That does not ruin your credibility. Most people pay far less attention to these moments than you think. Correct yourself if necessary, continue speaking and keep your attention on the discussion instead of the error.

Confidence also develops through regular practice. Speak up during meetings, answer questions in class or start conversations instead of waiting for perfect confidence to appear. Each opportunity teaches you how to manage nervousness a little better than before. Progress comes from repetition, not perfection.

Body language deserves attention as well. Stand or sit comfortably, look at the people you are speaking to and avoid hiding behind crossed arms or constant movement. You don’t need dramatic gestures to appear confident. A relaxed posture and steady eye contact make your message more convincing.

It is also worth remembering that confidence sounds different for everyone. One person may speak with great energy while another uses a calm voice. Both can communicate effectively. The goal is not to imitate another person’s style but to express your thoughts clearly in a way that feels natural to you.

The next time your heart beats faster before speaking, don’t take it as a signal to remain silent. Prepare well, breathe deeply, slow your pace and focus on the value of your message. Nervousness may still be there, but it no longer has to decide whether your voice is heard. Confidence is built each time you choose to speak, even when fear tries to persuade you to stay silent.

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Written by Aliyah O. 

The Balance Between Fashion and Professionalism

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Getting dressed should be fun. Few things feel better than putting together an outfit that makes you smile before you even leave the house. Fashion gives us endless ways to express ourselves, but every occasion calls for its own dress code. Knowing how to dress for different settings is a style skill that never goes out of fashion.

Think about your wardrobe for a moment. That oversized denim jacket you love for brunch with friends may not be the best choice for a client presentation. The sparkling mini dress that turns heads at a birthday dinner would probably feel out of place at a morning conference. That doesn’t mean either outfit is wrong. They simply belong in different moments.

The secret is learning to match your outfit to the occasion while still looking like yourself.

A day at the office doesn’t have to mean boring black trousers and stiff shirts. Add a colourful blouse, a printed scarf, statement earrings or a pair of stylish loafers. If your workplace has a relaxed dress code, a smart co-ord set or a well-cut jumpsuit can look polished without feeling too formal. Professional dressing can still have personality.

Weekend plans give you more freedom to play. Linen trousers, matching sets, maxi dresses, trainers, bold handbags and fun sunglasses all have their place. This is where you can experiment with colours, textures and accessories that might not fit into your Monday wardrobe.

Weddings, dinner parties and celebrations are your excuse to bring out the glamour. Rich fabrics, elegant heels, tailored suits, beautiful jewellery and eye-catching handbags deserve their moment. Just remember that every event has its own tone. A garden wedding calls for a different look than a black tie gala, and that’s part of the fun.

Travelling deserves its own fashion category. Looking stylish is great, but comfort should never be forgotten. Relaxed trousers, breathable fabrics, comfortable trainers and a lightweight jacket can make a journey much more enjoyable while still looking put together. Airport style has become a fashion moment for good reason.

One of the easiest ways to make your wardrobe work harder is by styling the same piece in different ways. A classic white shirt can be worn with tailored trousers for work, denim for lunch, or a satin skirt for an evening out. A simple blazer can dress up jeans or complete a formal outfit. Great style isn’t about owning hundreds of clothes. It’s about making the most of the ones you already have.

Accessories deserve plenty of attention too. A handbag, belt, watch or pair of earrings can completely change the mood of an outfit. Swap trainers for heels, add a structured bag, or layer a few delicate necklaces, and your look instantly feels fresh without buying an entirely new wardrobe.

Fashion is about having fun, and professionalism is simply knowing what fits the occasion. The two work beautifully together. You don’t have to choose between looking stylish and looking appropriate. With a little thought and creativity, you can step into every meeting, celebration, lunch date or event feeling comfortable, confident and completely yourself.

So the next time you’re standing in front of your wardrobe wondering what to wear, ask yourself one simple question: “Where am I going today?” The answer will guide your outfit, and your personal style will do the rest.

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Written by Aliyah O.

The Compliment That Changed Her Confidence

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There is a reason many women can remember a compliment from years ago almost word for word. It isn’t that compliments are uncommon. It is that most of them pass through a conversation without leaving much behind. A quick remark about an outfit or a hairstyle is appreciated, smiled at and forgotten. The compliments that stay are usually the ones that recognise effort, character or ability.

A woman may hear that she has beautiful hair and genuinely appreciate the kindness. By the following week, she may not remember who said it. Yet a comment about the way she handled a difficult client, the patience she showed during a challenging project or the clarity with which she explained an idea can remain with her for years. Those words reach a different part of a person because they acknowledge what she has worked to become, not just what she looks like.

People notice admirable qualities in others far more frequently than they express them. A manager may leave a presentation impressed by an employee’s composure. A lecturer may recognise that a student’s writing has improved significantly over the course of a semester. A friend may admire another friend’s generosity or dedication without ever mentioning it. The thought comes and goes, while the compliment remains unspoken.

There is an assumption that people already know what they are good at. In reality, that is not always true. Many women are quick to dismiss their strengths while remembering every mistake they have made. They replay awkward conversations, dwell on criticism and question whether they are doing enough. In the middle of that internal conversation, one sincere compliment can introduce a different perspective.

The most memorable compliments are almost always specific. They don’t rely on exaggerated praise or sweeping declarations. They point to a particular action, a consistent quality or a moment that deserves recognition. “You stayed calm when everyone else was panicking.” “You ask thoughtful questions.” “The way you handled that conversation showed real maturity.” Comments like these are believable because they are based on observation rather than politeness.

This is perhaps why they are remembered long after the conversation has ended. They become part of the way a woman understands herself. On days when doubt becomes louder than confidence, she remembers that someone else saw her patience, her talent, her passion and the effort she put into her work. That reminder becomes easier to believe because it came from careful observation rather than empty praise.

The value of a sincere compliment is easy to underestimate because it takes only a few seconds to say. Its impact, however, is not measured by the time it takes to speak the words. Many people can trace an important decision back to a conversation they almost forgot, except for one sentence that refused to leave them. It may have been the reason they applied for a new role, shared an idea in a meeting or trusted themselves enough to accept a responsibility they would once have avoided.

There is no shortage of kind thoughts. They are formed every day in offices, classrooms, family gatherings and casual conversations. The problem is that many of them never leave the mind of the person thinking them. They are interrupted by the fear of sounding awkward or unnecessary, so the moment passes.

A genuine compliment cannot erase every insecurity or silence every doubt. It can, however, remind a woman of qualities she may have overlooked for years. That may seem like a small gesture, but anyone who has carried the right words for a long time understands that a few sincere sentences can outlive the moment in which they were spoken.

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Written by Aliyah O.