(Love Doctor) Solomon Adams gives everyone quick notes on how men could approach beautiful or gorgeous women. We don’t want anybody to be too lonely this coming festive season so we culled his 6 points for our male readers.
(1) Be a real man.
You’re the man here and you need to be in charge of the conversation if you want an attractive woman to take notice and respect you. You’ve got to be able to make her feel like you know what you’re doing or she’ll write you off as an inexperienced boy.
(2) Be yourself and be Honest.
Attractive women get asked out all the time; show her that you’re not just some typical guy trying to prove to himself that he can get a woman in that league. Don’t just come out and tell her that she’s gorgeous and you’d love to call her sometime. Yeah, you and everyone else! If you really can’t come up with a good line, tell her the truth — tell her that you simply have to get to know her and that you’d love to do it over dinner.
(3) Get her phone number.
Get either her mobile number or her land line, whichever she’s more comfortable with. Do not settle for an email address; if that’s all she offers, she’s already written you off. Point out that she can always block your number if she decides you’re not worthy. If offers to take yours, she may or may not call use it, so if you really want to see her again, make it clear that you’re being sincere about wanting it.
(4) Be confident and be sincere.
Put your game face on before you approach her. Know that you are cool enough to have that woman on your arm. Believe this, and she’ll believe it, too. Don’t go up there reeking of insecurity, it will only put her off (unless you’re a waffling Hugh Grant look-alike, in which case a stutter might actually work in your favour). Look her straight in the eye and say it like you mean it. Mind, don’t say it too intensely, as that could be creepy.
(5) Call or text the next day.
Calling the day you get her number is a bit much, but waiting more than a day to call a woman who probably has loads of men lusting after her is not going to get your brownie points. If you don’t want her to play head games with you, don’t start the ball rolling with them.
(6) Be prepared — but don’t be too slick.
Know what you’re going to say before you say it. Know what you want to get out the conversation — don’t start chatting about the weather if what you really want to do is invite her to a party. Do not, however, come across like a pro, as that is a major turn-off to all women.